by Aubrey Cummings
“Don’t you want to try something for girls?”
As a girl that has participated in wrestling her entire life I have been asked that same question more times than I can count. I’ve never really known how to answer it, though, I understand what they are asking logically but at the same time who is to say what is and isn’t for a certain gender.

Just because the most participants are male doesn’t mean female participants should be seen as any less deserving of being there than their male counterparts. I have always been looked down upon not even just by the male participants but also the adults that are there.
Sure there are disadvantages of being a girl in traditionally boys’ sports because boys are considered stronger. But there are advantages that go along with that. Guys tend to underestimate girls because they think they are weaker but when out on the mat at a meet anything is possible.
Senior soccer player and wrestler Abril Andres explained, “Even at practice the new guys who haven’t really seen girls in the sport automatically write us off and think we can’t do what they do. It’s frustrating because we work as hard as they do and they still act like we will never be able to beat them until we prove them wrong.”
I talk about wrestling because this is the world I am most familiar with, but this isn’t the only world like this and it’s definitely not just sports where things like this go on. Even in the classroom in areas where they are more male dominated the girls are overlooked.
“In both of my engineering classes I am 1 of 4 women in a class of 24 and 1 of 2 in a class of 12. On an engineering field trip I went on, I was the only girl there. Can you see the trend? Sometimes it’s harder to be in a male- dominated career path,but I believe it helps me push to become better and stronger to make myself stand out more than just being a woman in a male dominated academy,“ said engineering pathway senior Kaydee Merrifield.
Experiences like what Merrifield and Andres talked about are seen everywhere in the world, not just in sports and school. But for teen girls those are two of the biggest places in their lives. These are also the areas that help set their futures.

This mindset in the world created a wall that most girls aren’t brave enough to jump in order to experience and prove themselves on the other side. This causes rifts like what is happening in the engineering world — women step back instead of stepping up because they know how they are going to be treated.
We as women have to continue fighting for our place in this world. We have to keep showing that we can do extraordinary things and prove to those who doubt us. If we put our minds to it we can do anything, so keep pushing forward and trying new experiences even if they aren’t typically for girls.























































